And Everyone Profits โ
June 16, 2020 – At a Zoom meeting, all the members were talking about the coronavirus, Trump, the looting, the protests, even SLAA but when โLaylaโ brought up racism, she was shut down and shamed for โbreaking the 10th tradition.โ
โThe last place I expected to be triggered was in a meeting,โ she said. โI cried for hours, wanting to self-harm but instead I picked up the phone.โ
When she experiences racial gaslighting, micro and macro aggressions and racial stereotypes in meetings she gets the program thrown in her face. Implying that she can only change her reaction, she canโt control other people, she must practice acceptance and my favorite โฆ โwe must love racists, too.โ
But does she? Isnโt it the recovery communityโs job to do the work and make the black newcomer feel welcome and safe? Isnโt it the recovery communityโs job to look at their own racism and change it?
